
January 2025. Eaton Bray.
Mum died peacefully on Monday morning, starting a week of phone calls and paper trails and photo selection,

but I made my priority that night to visit the church where Mum and Dad were married in 1961,

in Eaton Bray, just north of the Dunstable Downs.

She was born in this house at the head of a lane leading to open fields,

right next to Eaton Bray’s surviving pub.

My sis just dug out a 1930s postcard of the White Horse,

looking remarkably unchanged bar the loss of the Benskins sign.
The sun broke through as we paused by Mum’s birthplace, so here’s some more photos from a picturesque but unsung edge-of-Chilterns village,

a place where few come to pay homage.

Which is odd, as Mrs RM and I actually had our honeymoon here, too.
Martin, a very nice tribute to your Mum.
Dick
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So sorry to hear the sad news Martin a fitting memory for you Mum.
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I raised a glass to her that night, as you’ll see next 😉
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Sorry for your loss, RM.
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My condolences, Martin.
That’s a sad but lovely post as a tribute.
Been through the same myself not so long ago and a lot of what you’ve written recently has really hit a chord.
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Sorry to hear that Nick.
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Sorry for your trouble, Martin. A fine tribute..
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So sorry for your loss.
Alan
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Thanks, Alan.
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So sorry to learn of your loss, Martin. As others have said, a fitting tribute to your mum. Thinking of you.
Paul.
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Thanks, Paul.
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I’m very sorry to learn the news Martin.
That you were able to spend time helping her towards the end might help very slightly.
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Thanks Paul, it helped tremendously.
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Lovely post Martin. She was a great person.
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This is a lovely tribute to your mum, Martin. She was a beautiful woman. Sorry for your loss. Joan
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Thank you Joan. She loved meeting you last year.
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Over the years I’ve become fond of and happily used to your references and time with your parents. I’m so sorry to hear of your loss. A lovely tribute. R.
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So sorry for your loss, Martin. A Mum really is a wonderful, cherished thing that we don’t always fully appreciate until after they’ve gone. I lost mine just over three years ago and I still miss her terribly, in ways I never knew I would. Much love to you all.
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Bobby, my father and mother left us in 2002 and 2004.
I miss them more with each passing year, as we do with Mrs. E’s.
I can only echo what other posters have said.
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Thank you Bobby.
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Lovely post. Love the picture of them. Take care.
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Thanks Duncan.
Sadly no pics of pubs so far in the c.13,000 pics mum has stashed in her cupboards.
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Sorry for your loss Martin. And sorry for being late to this post.
A lovely tribute.
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I appreciate your thoughts, Andy. Tough to know when to say/what to say in a diary type blog !
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Thoughts with you Martin and sorry for your loss.
A lovely post with great pictures.
Take care.
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Many thanks, Neil.
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Hi, I came across your lovely tribute to your Mum. A great photo of your parents – they look so happy. Interesting to see your Mother was born in the house I now live in. What year was she born here – be great to know some history, all the best to you – enjoy the walks! Gina
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That’s lovely to hear xxx Gina.
We walked down Park Lane to the field at the end. First time in Eaton Bray since our honeymoon 31 years ago.
If I find out anymore history I’ll add it to the post, but I’m not very good at history !
Best wishes
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